Domestic Abuse Bill draft unveiled today by the government
Long-awaited domestic abuse laws were put into effect today. The pledge to reform domestic abuse laws was made two years ago. Today we finally see the the content of a draft bill, which aims to protect people from all kinds of domestic abuse.
According to Domestic Violence London, British Crime Survey data suggests that 1 in 4 women and around 1 in 6 men will be affected by domestic violence in their lifetime. Government analysis showed that the social and economic cost of domestic abuse in England and Wales cost £66bn in the year 2016-17 alone.
Domestic abuse destroys lives
So many people still live in fear of their current or ex partners. If any of you have been in a domestic abusive relationship or have been at the effect of others who have. Today’s event has been a great step forwards.
“We know, from the harrowing experiences of victims and their families, that there is still more to do to stamp out this life-shattering crime and the Domestic Abuse Bill will lead the way in bringing about the changes we need to achieve this.” – Theresa May
What is domestic abuse?
There are different types of domestic abuse, including emotional, psychological, physical, sexual, and financial abuse.
Often physical violence has defined how people perceive domestic abuse. What may start out are controlling behaviours. The financial abuse. Someone in control of the finances and therefore limiting all freedoms. The emotional and psychological abuse. Living in fear of your partner’s moods. Being screamed at. The abuse is often minimised because they didn’t actually hit you and the abuser will often manipulate the victim into not believing their version of reality. Something called gaslighting which is another devious form of abuse.
However the abuse can manifest and unfortunately lead to physical abuse. Not that physical abuse is any less damaging than emotional abuse.
Controlling behaviour is abuse
There is nothing romantic about being in a relationship with a jealous and controlling partner. Controlling and manipulative non-physical abuse is still abuse. If you are in a relationship with someone who is controlling you. Manipulating you. Then you only have one course of action. Leave.
Yet most often, it is not that easy for the person to leave their abuser. The abuser will systematically isolate their partners. Also trying to assert financial control over them so they are unable to leave. Living with an abusive and controlling partner is also exhausting.
If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic abuse, then there are many ways to get help. However desperate things may seem. Remember that anyone can be a victim of domestic abuse, regardless of gender, age, ethnicity, socio-economic status, sexuality or background. There are different kinds of abuse, but it’s always about having power and control over you.
Today’s bill drafted by the government will give statutory backing to “Clare’s Law”. Police have had discretion on whether to provide information on domestic abuse suspects since 2014. Now everyone will get the legal right to check to see if someone has previous convictions of domestic violence.
Formally known as the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme, Clare’s Law came into being after the horrific killing of mum Clare Wood in 2009 by her ex-partner George Appleton. Despite making a series of threats to rape and kill her, which she had reported to the Greater Manchester Police. George eventually strangled her and then set her body on fire. Appleton had a former criminal record for harassing other women and had a restraining order on another girlfriend.
Anyone can make an application to the police about an individual who is in an intimate relationship with another person and there is a concern that the individual, may present a risk of harm to their partner.
Domestic abuse victims will no longer be cross-examined by their abusers
Today’s legislation will prohibit the cross-examination of victims by their abusers in the family courts. Many victims have been traumatised enough without having to face their abusers in court.