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Homebuying and moving ranked more stressful than divorce or breakup

L&G surveyed UK homeowners to shed light on the nation’s homebuying habits and the financial and emotional pressures of getting on the property ladder.

Homebuying and moving ranked more stressful than divorce or breakup, L&G finds

L&G surveyed UK homeowners to shed light on the nation’s homebuying habits and the financial and emotional pressures of getting on the property ladder.

  • Moving house (48%) was reportedly the most stressful life event, more than a divorce or a romantic breakup
  • Hidden costs hit hard, with buyers facing £1,836 on average in the UK
  • Awareness gap: just 12% of young millennials understand all moving costs vs 45% of over-55s
  • Mortgage jargon still confuses, with nearly a third struggling to understand the different types

Buying a first home is one of life’s biggest milestones, but for many, the process comes with confusion and uncertainty. L&G’s survey of 2,000 UK homeowners found that both moving house (48%) and buying a home (35%) are considered more stressful than a divorce or romantic breakup (33%).

Unexpected costs

Even with careful planning, the costs of buying and moving can quickly mount. L&G found that on average, homeowners reported spending £1,836 on unexpected moving costs, excluding the deposit. This rises to £2,041 in London and £2,033 in Belfast, highlighting the regional variation in financial pressures.

Generational knowledge gap

L&G’s research highlighted a significant knowledge gap between younger and older buyers. Nearly half (45%) of those aged 55+ said they were aware of all moving costs, compared with just 12% of young millennials (25–34) and 14% of Gen Z (18–24).

Younger respondents were also more likely to underestimate expenses associated with moving in a new home, with 40% of young millennials saying utility bills were higher than expected.

Mortgage confusion

Understanding mortgage terminology is another hurdle for many buyers. Almost a third struggled to understand different mortgage types, while 39% of 25–34-year-olds found equity-related terms confusing. A further 38% said they did not fully understand the concept of an Agreement in Principle.

By comparison, 39% of those aged 55+ said they understood mortgage-related concepts clearly. Confusion was particularly pronounced in London, where respondents reported higher levels of difficulty across fees (38%), equity (36%) and mortgage types (35%).

Confidence on the property ladder

Despite the challenges, many buyers felt positive about their financial planning. Nearly two-thirds (63%) said they felt confident when buying their first home, including one in five (20%) who described themselves as very confident.

However, confidence varied across age groups. It was highest among 25–34-year-olds (71%) and lowest among those aged 45–54 (53%). Regionally, confidence peaked in the East Midlands (69%) and was lowest in Northern Ireland (56%).

Looking ahead: protecting your home

Once buyers receive the keys, attention often shifts from purchasing to protecting their home and finances. Building (67%) and contents insurance (61%) were the most common types of protection taken out. However, fewer than four in 10 (38%) buyers took out life insurance, while 20% of buyers opted for income protection and just 18% bought critical illness cover.

Clare Beardmore, Director of Mortgage Club, L&G: “Buying your first home is a major milestone, but our research shows it can feel overwhelming, particularly when faced with unexpected costs and unfamiliar mortgage terminology. That’s where advisers play such a key role in helping buyers navigate the homebuying process with confidence, ensuring they make informed decisions when arranging a mortgage and have the right protection in place.” To read L&G’s full report, please visit: https://www.legalandgeneral.com/insurance/life-insurance/first-time-homebuyers-checklist/

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