Dump Your Significant Jerk Day

Dump Your Significant Jerk Day

Is your significant other a jerk?

Dump Your Significant Jerk Day was established to give people in a bad relationship, an opportunity to finally dump their other half. We’ve all been there. Some of you might wonder whether it’s time to get rid of your significant other. If you have been spending all of your time recently asking yourself. Why are they so mean to me, and let them talk to me that way? Are they neglecting or cheating on me me? Then it might be time to dump your significant jerk. So why not do it today?

I believe that often people even stay in bad relationships longer than they should because the fear of the pain of dating is scarier than the pain of a bad relationship!

Karen Salmansohn
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In a bad relationship? Now is the time to leave

Many of us have stayed too long in relationships, even though we are unhappy. If you have found yourself constantly wondering why your date has cancelled on you again. Friends have started to comment on your relationship. You seem to be the only one giving in the relationship.

You should ask yourself. Why ARE you staying with them?

Today is the day to set yourself free!

Sometimes it feels difficult to get out of a bad relationship once you’re in one. Someone is at least there to message you each day. You’re not alone. Don’t let loneliness be an excuse for you if the relationship isn’t working. if you are unhappy, and have tried everything to make things work. If someone is not treating you with the respect and love, you deserve. Then it might be time to move on.

Dump Your Significant Jerk Day reminds you that you’re worth more!

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10 tell-tell signs you’re with a Jerk

Sometimes people are not bad people. A relationship can reach an expiry date without the other person being a jerk. However, don’t try to kid yourself that your other half is not that bad. If they display these signs, I’m sorry to tell you. Your significant other is a jerk, and it’s time to move on.

1. Flirts with other girls

If your significant other flirts with other people. Whether it’s in front of you or behind your back, and they don’t consider your feelings, then that’s not cool. It doesn’t matter whether you/them are outgoing or flirty. If your other half is flirting or messaging other people and letting them believe they are interested. Dump them. You need a relationship based on mutual respect.

2. Doesn’t call or text you back

We are all busy. However, if you are doing all the work and your significant other doesn’t seem that bothered. That means they aren’t that into you. You want someone who will put in as much effort as you do. Find someone who can match your energy in the relationship or have fun being single!

3. Won’t introduce you to their friends

If your significant other won’t make you feel part of their life or introduce you to their friends. Then they aren’t that serious or committed to you. If they always go out with their mates, who know nothing about you. Or if you are secret and are being hidden. It’s time to move on.

4. Tries to make you feel jealous and insecure

If you are in a relationship where your other half intentionally tries to make you feel jealous and insecure. Then your significant other is a jerk. You should be made to feel special. Not in competition with other people. Similarly, if they always talk about their ex, they’re just not ready to commit to you. If you are unfortunate enough to be with a Narcissist. Then be warned that triangulation forms part of these feelings of insecurity. It’s time to leave a relationship like this before it damages your self-esteem.

5. Brings up your past to hurt you

Trust is a big thing in a relationship. We let our guard down, making ourselves vulnerable. Telling our significant other our innermost secrets. Including past mistakes. If your significant other constantly brings up things to make you feel bad or hurt you. They are a jerk and need dumping. You should feel safe and protected in a relationship. Not on edge or feel under attack.

6. Only cares about themself and not you

Is your significant other self-obsessed? Does every sentence that comes out of their mouth start with ‘I’? If every time you try to bring the conversation back to yourself, you end up back talking about them. If they show no real interest in you and your life. Then this is a sign that your significant other only care about themselves. You will never be a priority. Especially if they are a Narcissist. Read my article on what it is Narcissist abuse.

7. Puts you down and criticises you

It upsets me to hear how many people suffer from being belittled and put down in a relationship. Most often, this will happen over time. This sort of behaviour can erode your confidence and self-esteem. If you feel that you are changing to please your partner. Not wearing the clothes you want to wear. Not going out to see the friends you hang out with. Criticised constantly for just being YOU. Your significant other is a jerk. Get rid.

8. Jealous and possessive

Jealousy and controlling behaviours are not romantic. It might seem romantic at first that your new love interest constantly texts to find out how your day has been. Wanting to know where you are. It might seem like your significant other is really into you. Sometimes they are. Unfortunately, this may also may be the behaviour of someone who is jealous and possessive, which can most often be problematic and even dangerous if left unchecked. Get out of the relationship while you can. Both are not healthy behaviours.

9. Expects you to pay for everything

I have never been put off by a broke guy. Dreaming up fun ways to be in a relationship on a budget can be fun. However, if you are in a relationship where your significant other expects you to pay for everything. Forgets their wallet. Is unwilling to share costs. If you feel they are taking advantage of your generosity and kind nature. It’s not fair for someone to put this extra stress on you. Dump them!

10. Deliberately hurts and disrespects you

Anyone who deliberately hurts and disrespects you should go. I think this is the most difficult one to come to terms with. You have spent so much time together. Your significant other might even be telling you that they love you. However, if someone can hurt you, they act like a jerk – they have no place in your life. Dump them and start celebrating the fabulous person that you are!

How to celebrate Dump Your Significant Jerk Independence Day

Breaking up with someone is never easy. Especially if you have feelings for them and love them still. Life is too short to be unhappy. If your significant other can not see the fabulous person you are, treat them with respect and compassion. Save yourself. Your future self will thank you for it. Don’t stay in an unhappy relationship out of fear of being alone or just because it seems easier.

If you are reading this, you know it’s probably time to dump your significant jerk. It’s time to get your life back on track. Find people who love you, think you are fabulous and are FUN to spend time with!

So happy Dump Your Significant Jerk Day! Or should we say “Independence Day”?

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Leaving a Narcissist?

When you are dealing with a Narcissist or Psychopath, then manage your exit from the relationship carefully. If you feel in danger, confide in your family or friends and ensure you are safe. Most important is your personal safety and a period of time where you learn to come to terms with the abuse and love yourself again. If you plan on leaving a Narcissist, you might like to read our article: 10 Ways to heal from a Narcissist Abusive Relationship.

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